Thread:CrossverseCrisis/@comment-3410435-20160109072534/@comment-30333252-20160112084906


 * sigh*

I don't mean to rub salt into any wounds, but with all due respect, your method did not work out either, did it?

True, this is an online community, and hence endless arguments with trolls are a possibility, but forcing arguments in a manner which is obnoxious is not the solution. Again, I do not mean to cause offense, but all said and done, you managed to isolate yourself from the community, and did not manage to get what you wanted either.

See, that's the thing, man. Being a hard-ass causes more harm than help, and rarely tends to get results, becuase that approach only works when two direct people interact, not when a direct and indirect person do. And the unfortunate reality that you need to accept is that people will mostly remain indirect, whether you want it or not.

Thank you. I appreciate an honest compliment.

Like I said, I feel you. I'm telling you, I know what it's like to be in your shoes, and I tried the approach you are taking. My experience taught me this: "Back-talk will always exist. ALWAYS. So either keep having it work against you, or adapt, and utilize it instead."

I understand that somethings can only be comprehended with experience, but I wish you would accept the inevitability of my observation right from the start, because otherwise, you'll learn the hard way, like I did.

If you take my advice, and avoid what I suffered, good for you. The choice is ultimately yours.